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		<title>What is your team searching for?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sybille Schroeter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2020 19:46:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[What is your team searching for? As leaders in today's economy, we cannot afford to have our team searching for anything that would undermine our productivity. Leaders that understand that they influence the way people search are far more effective than those that are unaware of this significant ability assigned to them. This skill [...]]]></description>
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<p>As leaders in today&#8217;s economy, we cannot afford to have our team searching for anything that would undermine our productivity. Leaders that understand that they influence the way people search are far more effective than those that are unaware of this significant ability assigned to them. This skill seems elusive for most leaders. Some leaders even see it as presumptuous to assume that we could influence other people&#8217;s way of seeing the world. Today I would love to share some tips we empower leaders with via our <a href="https://siegfriedlange.com/training/">ICOPE Leadership Program</a>, designed to offer practical leadership skills.</p>
<p>There are five questions the leader should have an answer for, to be able to guide the team towards searching for more favourable outcomes. These five questions are:</p>
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<li>How does the Law of Search work?<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></li>
<li>What are we searching for currently?</li>
<li>What is conducive to search for?<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></li>
<li>How do we influence others to search?<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></li>
<li>How do we maintain the search?<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></li>
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<p><b>How does the Law of Search work?<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></b></p>
<p>Think of a time when you were deciding on a new purchase—for example, buying a new phone. These days there are so many models of mobile phones on the market; however, as soon as you have decided which model is best for your lifestyle, you start to notice that particular model everywhere. It seems like everyone has one. What is happening here? When deciding to purchase a car, we find the same dynamic. The day you decided on a specific vehicle, that you might have noticed here or there before, it seems there has been an increase in the number of these cars overnight. These cars appear everywhere, and once again it feels like a conspiracy. Someone dished these cars out, and you did not even realise. Now think of a time when someone pointed out a habit in a colleague or partners such as a chuckle or a word they use often. The moment they mention it, you notice it to the point of distraction. Just a day or two before you didn&#8217;t notice it at all, now it seems that all they ever do is that annoying habit. What happened here? Did they always do it?</p>
<p>What you will be experiencing is what we call <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1d1hstAcgQ&amp;t=2s">The Law of Search</a>.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></p>
<p>The Law of Search states that: &#8220;When you search for something, your senses become highly sensitive towards that object in such a way that it appears more frequently than anything else in that category. The above causes you to see these things more regularly. Our brains are energy-saving organs and therefore save energy by categorising and generalising the peripheral observations. As a result of this, the brain saves immense amounts of brain activity. As soon as our brain registers something as important this item emphasises it and where it used to slip by unnoticed, it is now part of the brains focus and seems to the individual as a more frequent event.</p>
<p><b>What are we searching for</b> <b>currently?</b></p>
<p>The natural human inclination is to search for the worst things about ourselves first; this is due to what we call the <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uUAsKgQjPnI">Wild Horse Rule</a>, which states that you would first think the worst about yourself. It does not say that you only think the worst about yourself, but it means that this is the first starting point of your thoughts.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></p>
<p>Because of this dynamic, your team will be searching for the worst things about themselves and the organisation first. <a href="https://youtu.be/ztE5R5vcWlk">Searching in this way often results in fear</a>. If you as their leader do not consciously impact the way they search, you will fail them in your leadership.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></p>
<p>It is of paramount importance that every leader considers what the team is most frequently searching for and how that impacts the performance of the group. The insight regarding the search can only be established by listening to statements about the team and the organisation. Most preferably, this observation happens without alarming anyone to the fact. One on ones via using the Potjie model (practical leadership model that assists leaders in growing relationships – part of the ICOPE training), can also be used to gain more insight into possible repeating searches in which the team engages.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></p>
<p>When the leader has an insight into the items searched for, then, the impact can be considered.<span class="Apple-converted-space">  </span>I supplest drawing up a visual representation to see what the outflow of these searches might be as is indicated below:</p>
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<td valign="top"><b>Search</b></td>
<td valign="top"><b>Impact</b></td>
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<td valign="top">Exco does not consider our worth</td>
<td valign="top">Could impact application for funding negatively</td>
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<p>The above already assists the leader in determining what could be more productive ways of searching that follow below.</p>
<p><b>What is conducive to search for?<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></b></p>
<p>The leader now has the privilege to consider what the team should be searching for. Finding the ideal search focus is most easily done by reverse engineering. The leader asks, &#8220;what is the desired outcome?&#8221;. With the desired outcome established, the leader considers the items which, if the team searches for it, they will increase the probability of reaching the desired result identified. Continuing with the above example, this could look the following way:</p>
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<td valign="top"><b>Outcome</b></td>
<td valign="top"><b>New Search</b></td>
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<td valign="top">Defending the desired funding of a project confidently</td>
<td valign="top">How does our team impact the organisations&#8217; profitability</td>
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<p><b>How do we influence others to search?<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></b></p>
<p>We never have control over others, but only influence. Influence is escalated most via common ground and trust. Both of these are most effectively developed by showing interest in the other. Interest is most effectively indicated by asking questions. The leader is in the best position to ask appropriate questions to influence the team to search more effectively. Questions are a powerful tool that when used correctly, can be used to shape individuals search focus and perspective. It is, however, important which type of questions one asks. In my questioning quadrants model, the 3<sup>rd</sup> quadrant suggests asking a question although one knows the answer. This type of question aims to educate and is most effective in redirecting the search focus of the interviewee.</p>
<p>Questions are amazingly powerful because one doesn&#8217;t force someone to think in a particular manner which could cause resistance. It nudges an individual to consider possible alternative focus areas; they may not have found on their own. When the leader frames the questions thoroughly, the outcome will be that the team starts focussing on desired elements which in turn increases the teams drive.</p>
<p><b>How do we maintain the search?</b></p>
<p>Humans are creatures of habit. The leader should grab the opportunity of this social science fact and create an environment where continuously searching for growth etc. becomes a habit. Habits are behaviours we repeat so often that they become part of our &#8220;unconscious&#8221; behavioural fibre. By placing mechanisms in place to cultivate a repeated focus on the areas identified, the leader should aim at generating a set of habits that transform the team. Thus the leader will have moulded a team that will continue searching healthily. As leaders, we should always strategise for a flourishing future beyond ourselves.</p>
<p>Reference List:</p>
<p>ICOPE Leadership Program &#8211; <a href="https://siegfriedlange.com/training/">https://siegfriedlange.com/training/</a></p>
<p>The Law of Search &#8211; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1d1hstAcgQ&amp;t=2s">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1d1hstAcgQ&amp;t=2s</a></p>
<p>TEDx Talk – Wild Horse Theory &#8211; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uUAsKgQjPnI">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uUAsKgQjPnI</a></p>
<p>Step 34 Fear and the Law of Search &#8211; <a href="https://youtu.be/ztE5R5vcWlk">https://youtu.be/ztE5R5vcWlk</a></p>
<p>Step 9 Video – Questioning Quadrants &#8211;<span class="Apple-converted-space">  </span><a href="https://youtu.be/sJF26qud3Oc">https://youtu.be/sJF26qud3Oc</a><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></p>
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		<title>Executive Coaching</title>
		<link>https://siegfriedlange.com/2020/06/17/executive-coaching/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sybille Schroeter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2020 20:46:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Capacity Trust]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[What is executive coaching? Executive coaching is assisting top executives, managers and other identified leaders to perform,learn,stay healthy and balanced and effectively guide their teams to successfully reach desired goals and exceed individual and corporate expectations. This is done through: Helping an executive efficiently innovate and adapt their leadership style to meet big organizational [...]]]></description>
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<p style="color: #000000;"><span style="color: #000000; font-family: var(--body_typography-font-family); font-size: var(--body_typography-font-size); font-style: var(--body_typography-font-style,normal); letter-spacing: var(--body_typography-letter-spacing);">What is executive coaching?</span></p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Executive coaching is assisting top executives, managers and other identified leaders to perform,learn,stay healthy and balanced and effectively guide their teams to successfully reach desired goals and exceed individual and corporate expectations. This is done through:</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Helping an executive efficiently innovate and adapt their leadership style to meet big organizational changes such as those required by mergers and acquisitions.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Paving the way for a smooth individual career transition – e.g., ensuring rapid acquisition of general leadership skill sets required to move from being a manager to an executive.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Teaching specific new awareness and skills – such as those required because of increased visibility.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Resolving specific problems – remediation (minimizing or repairing damage caused by discrete dysfunctional behavior(s) that create obstacles for personal, team, or corporate best performance).</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">How exactly does it work?</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Executive coaching is always:</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">One-on-one</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Relationship-based</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Highly tailored to the individual clients’ business environment and need(s)</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Characterized by first defining opportunities for growth – a process accomplished via interview(s), survey instruments, or any of a host of other assessment tools such as the 360 degree assessment, Myers Briggs Personality Test Inventory, Personality and Values Questioning as well as the Thomas Kilmer Conflict Inventory</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Defined, in a goal-oriented fashion, with a structured plan formally contracted in writing</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Employ a variety of approaches and techniques</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Conducted through a series of focused sessions that occur over time (typically 6 to 12 months)</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Conducted by a professional, preferably external to the organization, whose primary role is coaching</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Ultimately optimize the clients’ performance so that they can deliver and/or surpass their organizational goals</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Include follow-through</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Include accountability</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Equip the client with lasting heightened awareness and the skills to continue to self-develop</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Coaching vs mentoring</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">People often make the mistake of using coaching and mentoring interchangeably. There is however, a big difference between the two. Mentoring tends to be for a long period of time (can run over decades) and involves learning from someone that is in the sector and that has “been there, done that” that is not the case with executive coaching. Coaching is shorter and within a defined term for example an hour a week for 2 years and a coach is usually someone who is not within the organization and the meetings are usually structured and focus on specific development and leadership issues. Mentoring focuses on career and personal development whereas mentoring focuses more on development in a certain area of an individual’s life.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Who is executive coaching for?</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Executive coaching is for people who want to:</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">-Improve self-confidence</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">-Strike a better work-life balance</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">-Open up new career opportunities</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">-Become a more effective leader</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">What are the benefits of Executive Coaching?</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Increased self-awareness</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Increased self-regulation</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Greater empathy and emotional intelligence</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Flexible thinking replacing rigid thinking</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Higher levels of motivation</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">More effective leadership</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">These benefits may carry over into the client’s personal life as well.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">What improvements can you expect from executive coaching?</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">The nature of coaching, allows the client not only to develop goals but also to stick to and follow through with goals because the coach will devise a way in which progress towards goals can be measured. Enhanced ability to communicate, a coach works with you to find ways to improve how you convey what is important to you, to the business and to others. And lastly, you can expect better understanding of others because a coach helps you understand why others might think and act the way they do. You’ll learn about actions you can take to help them or to focus them in a direction that is better for the organization. Greater self- and contextual-awareness, coaching is about you and where you work. You will gain insight about yourself as a leader within your organization.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Organizational benefits to having executive coaching</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Higher productivity</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Better retention</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Lower costs</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Better working relationships</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Better turnovers</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">If you are ready to invest in yourself, coaching offers a tailored, focused way to connect your leadership development with your day-to-day work demands.</p>
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		<title>Success and values</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sybille Schroeter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2020 20:15:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Capacity Trust]]></category>
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<p style="color: #000000;">Our Values define who we are!</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">“Values aren’t buses… They’re not supposed to get you anywhere. They’re supposed to define who you are.” – Jennifer Cruise</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">When we know what our values are, we can make decisions far easier as Roy Disney stated: “It’s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.”</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">But what are your values?</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">A dear friend of mine </span><a style="color: #000000;" href="https://www.paulterwal.com/contact/">Paul Ter Wal</a><span style="color: #000000;"> once explained to me that the journey to discover your core values is a crucial and important journey for individuals and companies. He has developed a system to assist companies with this and I would encourage you to connect with him via the link below.</span></p>
<p style="color: #000000;">But let’s focus on you and your values.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Download the PDF provided at the link in the description now.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Now note on the downloaded list 10 values that are most important to you.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Remove 5 of the values to only have 5 left.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">5 are still too many remove 2 more.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">3 is a crowd so remove 1 more.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Now that you are left with 2 ask yourself if someone put a gun to your head and instructed you to let one of the values go which one would it be?</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">That was an emotionally painful step correct, was it not?</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">When you behave contrary to your values you have this underlying emotional pain in your subconscious and that drains your energy without you even realising.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">For your own sanity and success, you need to spend time and consider how you live out your core value.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">Clarity on this will automatically give you a greater sense of purpose.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">This greater sense of purpose will automatically generate more engagement in your daily activities.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">When you are engaged you will ultimately experience success.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">President Eisenhower knew that the fact that we have things is far less important than that we know and honour our values.</p>
<p style="color: #000000;">“A people that values its privileges above its principles soon loses both”. – Dwight D. Eisenhower</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Let’s do as </span><a style="color: #000000;" href="https://www.paulterwal.com/contact/">Paul Ter Wal</a><span style="color: #000000;"> encourages us to do. Set aside time to search for our true core values that determine who we are and start living according to them.</span></p>
<p style="color: #000000;">May your life be a testimony to your core values.</p>
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